Wednesday, August 6, 2008

i can not love..

I do not believe in love. some people say "love is sharing", some people say "love is talking", some of them believe "love is spending time together", while other maintains "love is about faithfulness", there are other numerous beliefs like "love is being friends" etc etc, definition of love ain't going to end anytime sooner, each day brings a new meaning for this abstract word which dignifies emotion. The emotion which nobody has understood properly at current stage of time or might be I have never come across such a personality who has ever described me about its worth.
Well love is not about definitions, its something much more than human comprehension, one aspect of which only is human mind able to realize or appreciate or acknowledge. Love is much bigger than material comforts and gain. But each ticking second perplexes me of its existence in my vicinity. Some of you may think I am love cynic who has a past time relationship resulting Paranoia. But folks, never had been in serious relationship, there had been many but not serious.
So when ever you feel like you are in love, just ask yourself some questions, like, is this what you really wanted? You sure you are ready for it? Or things like, where do you project yourself after a considerable amount of time with your partner?
well questions are for those only, who are in serious relation, rest of the genre know what they want, so they does not keep pushing the expectations to higher and new levels.
Cheers to those who belongs to "rest of the genre".

4 comments:

antovincy said...

I really dunno what the definition of love is!!!! but ya i do beleive in whats there in this post...Love is present in each and persons mind...its nt only getting in relation to some person...its much more than that...One think i liked in this post was do ask qns urself when u get into relationships which is absolutely true...we shouldn't miss anyother realtions for one person :)
As everyone tells "True love never fails"

PUJA said...

great going dude......"LOVE" not bad to start with..... hey loved ur feelings... abt love... he he he he

m@X!mU$ said...

You know when I said
I knew little about love?

Well, that wasn't true.

I know a lot about love.

I mean, you could search
the furthest reaches of the universe and never find anything more beautiful.


So, yes, I know that
love is unconditional.

But I also know it can be unpredictable, unexpected, uncontrollable, unbearable and, well,strangely easy to mistake for loathing.

When you are in love, it feels like your heart doesn't belong to you anymore.

It belongs to someone else.

And if you wanted it,
You would wish for nothing in exchange.

No gifts, no goods,
no demonstrations of devotion.

Nothing but knowing you are loved, too.

Attachment creates bondage, while love bestows freedom.

monica said...

dont tell me you cant love.
you were the biggest flirt of all time, and now preaching not to love. didn expected you to change this much